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The Here and Now
Love and Absence
Free Will vs. Determinism
Language and Art
Self-Love
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Saturday, November 30, 1991 (Henry is 28, Clare is 20).Henry is nervous about attending dinner at Clare’s apartment with her roommate Charisse and Charisse’s boyfriend, Gomez; he has yet to see Clare’s place or meet her friends. When Henry arrives, he is greeted by Gomez, who Henry recognizes but can’t remember from where. They address each other as “comrade” playfully, though Henry can tell Gomez is sizing him up. Inside, Henry observes the railroad layout of the apartment and the eclectic décor choices. Gomez announces Henry’s arrival. Henry kisses Clare and meets Charisse, with whom he immediately feels comfortable. Henry realizes from the mess in the kitchen that no one but him knows how to cook, so he takes over dinner preparations.
This passage marks a critical development in Clare and Henry’s relationship—he’s meeting her friends for the first time. Gomez’s behavior is odd and perhaps suggests that he has feelings for Clare and sees Henry as competition. It’s plausible that the discomfort of this situation will trigger a time-traveling episode for Henry, which would put Clare in a bind: how would she explain Henry’s sudden absence to people who are (likely) unaware of his condition? As Henry and Clare begin their life together in the present, it seems that Henry’s condition will test the limits of what they’re willing to endure for the sake of love.
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As Henry cooks, Clare notices Gomez chain smoking, getting increasingly tipsy, and making fun of Henry behind his back. He stops only when Charisse chastises him. By the time dinner is ready, everyone is drunk. Gomez toasts to the revolution, and when Henry inquires which one, Gomez asserts the next one. He says they will eat the rich. Henry points out that Clare comes from a wealthy family and insists they can’t eat her; Gomez agrees but jokes that Clare would be delicious. When Clare goes to the kitchen to fetch dessert, Gomez follows her. He grabs hold of her to tell her that Henry is the guy he cautioned her about. He lets her go when Charisse comes in the room.
Gomez’s remark to Clare about Henry being the guy he warned her about explains Gomez’s odd behavior this evening. Though it’s not clear exactly what he’s talking about, it seems that Gomez has had heard negative rumors about Henry and wants Clare to look out for herself. Recall that at this point in Henry’s life, his past of drinking to excess and having ample, emotionless sex to cope with his grief and loneliness isn’t so far behind him, so it’s possible that this is what Gomez is cautioning Clare about.
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Back at the table, Henry watches Gomez smoke and wonders what it is about him that bothers him. Henry realizes he knows him from an Iggy Pop concert. Gomez confirms Henry’s guess, telling him that he’d seen Henry there with a girl named Ingrid. They all discuss their affection for punk music until the night winds down. As Clare walks Henry out, she apologizes for Gomez’s behavior. Henry can tell there is something else Clare is thinking about, though she doesn’t say more. He leaves, but part of him wishes he could stay.
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Saturday, December 14, 1991/Tuesday, May 9, 2000 (Henry is 36).Henry is brawling with a man who addressed him with a homophobic slur. Gomez appears beside Henry. Henry pauses, and Gomez tells him that the man on the sidewalk is his friend, Nick. Gomez congratulates Henry on his “artistic” job of beating Nick up before asking if he can take him to the hospital now. Henry agrees, though he asks Gomez the date first. Gomez is puzzled when Henry also asks for the year.
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Gomez comments on Henry’s attire, which includes pink sneakers and a sweater with yellow duckies. Henry explains that he was merely making do with what he had. He asks Gomez to wait there, but he insists on joining Henry while he breaks into a store. Gomez is impressed by the ease with which Henry’s springs the locks on the back door. Once Henry acquires more socially appropriate clothing, he asks Gomez if he wants to get dinner. Though Gomez is still perplexed by Henry’s behavior, he follows him to a Swedish restaurant nearby.
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Once they are seated at their table, Gomez asks Henry if he minds him smoking. Henry does, but he gives him permission to light his cigarette anyway. At first Gomez says he wants to know why Henry fought with Nick, but Henry soon realizes that Gomez is curious about other things. Gomez admits that he initially recognized Henry because he has a reputation for leaving broken women in his wake. Gomez wonders aloud why Ingrid recently tried to kill herself, why Henry’s age appears to shift both in person and in photos Clare has, and why Henry knows how to pick locks and beat people near to death.
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Gomez waits silently as Henry eats. This Henry, visiting from the future, knows that Gomez will be instrumental in his survival for years to come. So, he tells Gomez the truth, starting with the events of that night. After, Henry asks Gomez how he knows Ingrid. Gomez explains that he knows Celia Attley, Ingrid’s best friend. Henry asks how Ingrid tried to kill herself this time. Gomez tells him, and Henry acknowledges that this would be her fourth attempt to die by suicide. She’ll finally succeed three years later.
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Gomez still struggles to believe the truth about Henry’s time travels, so Henry encourages him to ask Clare. Gomez admits that he has; Clare already confirmed everything. Gomez asks if they know each other in 2000, and Henry responds that they are “good friends.” He also gives Gomez a tip about investing in internet stocks. When Henry is hit with a wave of nausea, he makes Gomez follow him to the bathroom, then he vanishes. Henry reappears back in the present (2000), where he continues his work shift at the library as usual.
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Sunday, December 15, 1991 (Clare is 20).Clare arrives home from a night spent having sex with Henry. She finds Gomez smoking alone in her apartment. Clare is angry at him still for dinner weeks ago. He apologizes as soon as she comes in the door, recounting his night with Henry and Henry’s final disappearing act. They talk about the shock of Henry’s condition, and Clare is taken aback when Gomez begs her not to marry Henry. She reasserts her love for Henry, but Gomez is unmoved. He insists Henry is dangerous, though he admits that he likes him. Charisse comes home from church, interrupting their argument. Clare takes a bath and stews on both her conversation with Gomez and her deep-seated love for Henry.
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Saturday, December 22, 1991 (Henry is 28 and 33). Twenty-eight-year-old Henry’s apartment buzzer rings early in the morning; it’s an older version of himself traveling through time. Once older Henry gets inside, he asks younger Henry the date. He recognizes it as the evening of a particularly miserable night out. Both Henrys go back to bed, though the present version is fixated on watching his older self sleep. He considers that the short-haired, greying Henry beside him is a more familiar iteration of him to Clare, and he wonders if Clare is intentionally shifting the present version of Henry to become more the future version of Henry. He can’t fall back asleep, so he decides to go on a run. As he jogs in the cold, he begins to feel better.
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Evening, the same day (Henry is 28, and 33, Clare is 20).Clare and present-day Henry make their way to a Violent Femmes concert. Clare waits in the balcony while Henry goes to get drinks. When he doesn’t return, Clare leaves to find him. Henry is mid-argument with a blond woman she later learns is Ingrid. Henry sees Clare and ushers her away with him as Ingrid watches. Back upstairs, Clare remembers the lipstick she found in Henry’s bathroom the first night she met him in the present. The music picks up, and they go down to the ballroom to dance.
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When Clare takes a break from dancing, she finds Ingrid being consoled by a friend (Celia Attley) in the bathroom. The two women notice Clare, and the friend breaks away from Ingrid to warn her about Henry. She explains that he broke off an engagement with Ingrid after treating her badly for years. Clare, not knowing how to respond, leaves the bathroom abruptly. She lingers in the hallway, wondering if she should confront Henry or if it’s best to forget what happened before they met. Henry appears around the corner just then, interrupting Clare’s thoughts—but Clare can tell immediately it’s a version of Henry from the future. The welcome familiarity of his older self makes Clare cry.
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Older Henry comforts Clare and asks her what’s wrong. She explains what Ingrid’s friend said in the bathroom; Henry identifies the friend as Celia Attley. He tells Clare that he and Ingrid were never engaged, although he did treat her badly. Clare is still at a loss for how to move forward, but Henry encourages her to be patient. He explains that he will need her in the present to help him become the man she wants him to be, the man who she knows he will be in the future. She leaves the older version of Henry to go find his present self, who exists in the “here and now” and is waiting for her.
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