The Homecoming

by

Harold Pinter

Ruth Character Analysis

Ruth is Teddy’s wife of six years. The couple has three sons together. Though Ruth is the play’s sole female character, she immediately establishes herself as able and willing to defend herself against the male characters’ attacks on her character—and even to fight back with her own shows of dominance. When Teddy’s younger brother Lenny tries to put Ruth in her place, she first defies Lenny—and then aggressively comes on to him in a bold display of dominance. When Lenny and Joey absurdly engage Ruth in intimate sexual acts in front of Teddy, she reciprocates with a calm detachment that simultaneously denies her seducers sexual gratification and makes a fool of her absurdly passive husband. Ruth decisively defies her husband Teddy one last time in Act 2, when Teddy announces his plans to leave ahead of schedule, seemingly (and understandably) wanting to escape his family’s flagrant attempts to humiliate him. Rather than accompanying Teddy home to their children, Ruth chooses to remain with her in-laws and participate in their lascivious plan to force her into sex work—a plan Ruth manipulates to work in her favor when she deftly persuades Lenny to provide her with a roomy flat furnished to her standards and to sign a contract. When at the end of the play Max pathetically and desperately pleads with Ruth to acknowledge that he is “not an old man,” she refuses to say anything, solidifying her power over her male in-laws in a final display of indifference.

Ruth Quotes in The Homecoming

The The Homecoming quotes below are all either spoken by Ruth or refer to Ruth. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Resentment  Theme Icon
).
Act 1 Quotes

TEDDY. What do you think of the room? Big, isn’t it? It’s a big house. I mean, it’s a fine room, don’t you think? Actually there was a wall, across there…with a door. We knocked it down…years ago…to make an open living area. The structure wasn’t affected, you see. My mother was dead.

RUTH sits.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Jessie, Ruth
Related Symbols: Chair
Page Number: 21
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. Go to bed. I’ll show you the room.

RUTH. No, I don’t want to.

TEDDY. You’ll be perfectly all right up there without me. Really you will. I mean, I won’t be long. Look, it’s just up there. It’s the first door on the landing. The bathroom’s right next door. You…need some rest, you know.

Pause.

I just want to…walk about for a few minutes. Do you mind?

RUTH. Of course I don’t.

TEDDY. Well…Shall I show you the room?

RUTH. No, I’m happy at the moment.

TEDDY. You don’t have to go to bed. I’m not saying you have to. I mean, you can stay up with me. Perhaps I’ll make a cup of tea or something. The only thing is we don’t want to make too much noise, we don’t want to wake anyone up.

RUTH. I’m not making any noise.

TEDDY. I know you’re not.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy (speaker)
Page Number: 22-23
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. How did you know she was diseased?

LENNY. How did I know?

Pause.

I decided she was.

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 31
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. [The ashtray] seems to be in the way of your glass. The glass was about to fall. Or the ashtray. I’m rather worried about the carpet. It’s not me, it’s my father. He’s obsessed with order and clarity. He doesn’t like mess. So, as I don’t believe you’re smoking at the moment, I’m sure you won’t object if I move the ashtray.

He does so.

And now perhaps I’ll relieve you of your glass.

RUTH. I haven’t quite finished.

LENNY. You’ve consumed quite enough, in my opinion.

RUTH. No, I haven’t.

LENNY. Quite sufficient, in my own opinion.

RUTH. Not in mine, Leonard.

Pause.

LENNY. Don’t call me that, please.

RUTH. Why not?

LENNY. That’s the name my mother gave me.

Pause.

Just give me that glass.

RUTH. No.

Pause.

Lenny. I’ll take it then.

RUTH. If you take the glass…I’ll take you.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Lenny (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 33-34
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. I’ll tell you what, Dad, since you’re in the mood for a bit of a…chat, I’ll ask you a question. It’s a question I’ve been meaning to ask you for some time. That night…you know…the night you got me…that night with Mum, what was it like? Eh? When I was just a glint in your eye. What was it like? What was the background to it? I mean, I want to know the real facts about my background. I mean, for instance, is it a fact that you had me in mind all the time, or is it a fact that I was the last thing you had in mind?

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Jessie, Ruth, Max
Page Number: 36
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. Who’s this?

TEDDY. I was just going to introduce you.

MAX. Who asked you to bring tarts in here?

TEDDY. Tarts?

MAX. Who asked you to bring dirty tarts into this house?

TEDDY. Listen, don’t be silly—

MAX. You been here all night?

TEDDY. Yes, we arrived from Venice—

MAX. We’ve had a smelly scrubber in my house all night. We’ve had a stinking pox-ridden slut in my house all night.

TEDDY. Stop it! What are you talking about?

MAX. I haven’t seen the bitch for six years, he comes home without a word, he brings a filthy scrubber off the street, he shacks up in my house!

TEDDY. She’s my wife! We’re married!

Pause.

MAX. I’ve never had a whore under this roof before. Ever since your mother died. My word of honour. […]

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Jessie, Ruth
Page Number: 41-42
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. You a mother?

RUTH. Yes.

MAX. How many you got?

RUTH. Three.

He turns to TEDDY.

MAX. All yours, Ted?

Pause.

Teddy, why don’t we have a nice cuddle and kiss, eh? Like the old days? What about a nice cuddle and kiss, eh?

TEDDY. Come on, then.

[…]

MAX. You still love your old Dad, eh?

They face each other.

TEDDY. Come on, Dad. I’m ready for the cuddle.

MAX begins to chuckle, gurgling. He turns to the family and addresses them.

MAX. He still loves his father!

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Ruth
Page Number: 43-44
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 2 Quotes

MAX. But you’re my own flesh and blood. You’re my first born. I’d have dropped everything. Sam would have driven you to the reception in the Snipe, Lenny would have been your best man, and then we’d have all seen you off on the boat. […] Anyway, what’s the difference, you did it, you made a wonderful choice, you’ve got a wonderful family, a marvellous career…so why don’t we let bygones be bygones?

Pause.

You know what I’m saying? I want you both to know that you have my blessing.

TEDDY. Thank you.

MAX. Don’t mention it. How many other houses in the district have got a Doctor of Philosophy sitting down drinking a cup of coffee?

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Ruth
Page Number: 49
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. Don’t be too sure though. You’ve forgotten something. Look at me. I…move my leg. That’s all it is. But I wear…underwear…which moves with me…it captures your attention. Perhaps you misinterpret. The action is simple. It’s a leg…moving. My lips move. Why don’t you restrict…your observations to that? Perhaps the fact that they move is more significant…than the words which come through them. You must bear that…possibility…in mind.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy, Lenny
Page Number: 52-53
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. Yes, they’re about six hours behind us…I mean…behind the time here. The boys’ll be at the pool…now…swimming. Think of it. Morning over there. Sun. We’ll go anyway, mmnn? It’s so clean there.

RUTH. Clean.

TEDDY. Yes.

RUTH. Is it dirty here?

TEDDY. No, of course not. But it’s cleaner there.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy (speaker), Joey, Lenny
Page Number: 54-55
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. You wouldn’t understand my works. You wouldn’t have the faintest idea of what they were about. You wouldn’t appreciate the points of reference. You’re way behind. All of you. There’s no point in sending you my works. You’d be lost. It’s nothing to do with the question of intelligence. It’s a way of being able to look at the world. It’s a question of how far you can operate on things and not in things. I mean it’s a question of your capacity to ally the two, to relate the two, to balance the two. To see, to be able to see! I’m the one who can see. That’s why I can write my critical works. Might do you good…have a look at them…see how certain people can view…things…how certain people can maintain…intellectual equilibrium. Intellectual equilibrium. You’re just objects. You just…move about. I can observe it. I can see what you do. It’s the same as I do. But you’re lost in it. You won’t get me being…I won’t be lost in it.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Joey, Lenny, Max, Ruth
Page Number: 61-62
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. You took my cheese-roll?

TEDDY. Yes.

LENNY. I made that roll myself. I cut it and put the butter on. I sliced the piece of cheese and put it in between. I put it on a plate and I put it in the sideboard. I did all that before I went out. Now I come back and you’ve eaten.

TEDDY. Well, what are you going to do about it?

LENNY. I’m waiting for you to apologize.

TEDDY. But I took it deliberately, Lenny.

LENNY. You mean you didn’t stumble on it by mistake?

TEDDY. No, I saw you put it there. I was hungry, so I ate it.

Pause.

LENNY. Barefaced audacity.

Pause.

What led you to be so…vindictive against your own brother? I’m bowled over.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Lenny (speaker), Joey, Ruth
Page Number: 63-64
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. I’d need an awful lot. Otherwise I wouldn’t be content.

LENNY. You’d have everything.

RUTH. I would naturally want to draw up an inventory of everything I would need, which would require your signatures in the presence of witnesses.

LENNY. Naturally.

RUTH. All aspects of the agreement and conditions of employment would have to be clarified to our mutual satisfaction before we finalized the contract.

LENNY. Of course.

Pause.

RUTH. Well, it might prove a workable arrangement.

Lenny. I think so.

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 77-78
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY goes to the front door.

RUTH. Eddie.

Pause.

Don’t become a stranger.

TEDDY goes, shuts the front door.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 80
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. […] I don’t think she got it clear.

Pause. You understand what I mean? Listen, I’ve got a funny idea she’ll do the dirty on us, you want to bet? She’ll use us, she’ll make use of us, I can tell you! I can smell it! You want to bet?

Pause.

She won’t…be adaptable!

He falls to his knees, whimpers, begins to moan and sob. He stops sobbing, crawls past SAM’s body round her chair, to the other side of her.

I’m not an old man.

He looks up at her.

Do you hear me?

He raises his face to her.

Kiss me.

She continues to touch Joey’s head, lightly. LENNY stands, watching.

Related Characters: Max (speaker), Sam, Teddy, Joey, Lenny, Ruth
Related Symbols: Chair
Page Number: 81-82
Explanation and Analysis:
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Ruth Quotes in The Homecoming

The The Homecoming quotes below are all either spoken by Ruth or refer to Ruth. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Resentment  Theme Icon
).
Act 1 Quotes

TEDDY. What do you think of the room? Big, isn’t it? It’s a big house. I mean, it’s a fine room, don’t you think? Actually there was a wall, across there…with a door. We knocked it down…years ago…to make an open living area. The structure wasn’t affected, you see. My mother was dead.

RUTH sits.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Jessie, Ruth
Related Symbols: Chair
Page Number: 21
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. Go to bed. I’ll show you the room.

RUTH. No, I don’t want to.

TEDDY. You’ll be perfectly all right up there without me. Really you will. I mean, I won’t be long. Look, it’s just up there. It’s the first door on the landing. The bathroom’s right next door. You…need some rest, you know.

Pause.

I just want to…walk about for a few minutes. Do you mind?

RUTH. Of course I don’t.

TEDDY. Well…Shall I show you the room?

RUTH. No, I’m happy at the moment.

TEDDY. You don’t have to go to bed. I’m not saying you have to. I mean, you can stay up with me. Perhaps I’ll make a cup of tea or something. The only thing is we don’t want to make too much noise, we don’t want to wake anyone up.

RUTH. I’m not making any noise.

TEDDY. I know you’re not.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy (speaker)
Page Number: 22-23
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. How did you know she was diseased?

LENNY. How did I know?

Pause.

I decided she was.

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 31
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. [The ashtray] seems to be in the way of your glass. The glass was about to fall. Or the ashtray. I’m rather worried about the carpet. It’s not me, it’s my father. He’s obsessed with order and clarity. He doesn’t like mess. So, as I don’t believe you’re smoking at the moment, I’m sure you won’t object if I move the ashtray.

He does so.

And now perhaps I’ll relieve you of your glass.

RUTH. I haven’t quite finished.

LENNY. You’ve consumed quite enough, in my opinion.

RUTH. No, I haven’t.

LENNY. Quite sufficient, in my own opinion.

RUTH. Not in mine, Leonard.

Pause.

LENNY. Don’t call me that, please.

RUTH. Why not?

LENNY. That’s the name my mother gave me.

Pause.

Just give me that glass.

RUTH. No.

Pause.

Lenny. I’ll take it then.

RUTH. If you take the glass…I’ll take you.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Lenny (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 33-34
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. I’ll tell you what, Dad, since you’re in the mood for a bit of a…chat, I’ll ask you a question. It’s a question I’ve been meaning to ask you for some time. That night…you know…the night you got me…that night with Mum, what was it like? Eh? When I was just a glint in your eye. What was it like? What was the background to it? I mean, I want to know the real facts about my background. I mean, for instance, is it a fact that you had me in mind all the time, or is it a fact that I was the last thing you had in mind?

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Jessie, Ruth, Max
Page Number: 36
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. Who’s this?

TEDDY. I was just going to introduce you.

MAX. Who asked you to bring tarts in here?

TEDDY. Tarts?

MAX. Who asked you to bring dirty tarts into this house?

TEDDY. Listen, don’t be silly—

MAX. You been here all night?

TEDDY. Yes, we arrived from Venice—

MAX. We’ve had a smelly scrubber in my house all night. We’ve had a stinking pox-ridden slut in my house all night.

TEDDY. Stop it! What are you talking about?

MAX. I haven’t seen the bitch for six years, he comes home without a word, he brings a filthy scrubber off the street, he shacks up in my house!

TEDDY. She’s my wife! We’re married!

Pause.

MAX. I’ve never had a whore under this roof before. Ever since your mother died. My word of honour. […]

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Jessie, Ruth
Page Number: 41-42
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. You a mother?

RUTH. Yes.

MAX. How many you got?

RUTH. Three.

He turns to TEDDY.

MAX. All yours, Ted?

Pause.

Teddy, why don’t we have a nice cuddle and kiss, eh? Like the old days? What about a nice cuddle and kiss, eh?

TEDDY. Come on, then.

[…]

MAX. You still love your old Dad, eh?

They face each other.

TEDDY. Come on, Dad. I’m ready for the cuddle.

MAX begins to chuckle, gurgling. He turns to the family and addresses them.

MAX. He still loves his father!

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Ruth
Page Number: 43-44
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 2 Quotes

MAX. But you’re my own flesh and blood. You’re my first born. I’d have dropped everything. Sam would have driven you to the reception in the Snipe, Lenny would have been your best man, and then we’d have all seen you off on the boat. […] Anyway, what’s the difference, you did it, you made a wonderful choice, you’ve got a wonderful family, a marvellous career…so why don’t we let bygones be bygones?

Pause.

You know what I’m saying? I want you both to know that you have my blessing.

TEDDY. Thank you.

MAX. Don’t mention it. How many other houses in the district have got a Doctor of Philosophy sitting down drinking a cup of coffee?

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Max (speaker), Ruth
Page Number: 49
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. Don’t be too sure though. You’ve forgotten something. Look at me. I…move my leg. That’s all it is. But I wear…underwear…which moves with me…it captures your attention. Perhaps you misinterpret. The action is simple. It’s a leg…moving. My lips move. Why don’t you restrict…your observations to that? Perhaps the fact that they move is more significant…than the words which come through them. You must bear that…possibility…in mind.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy, Lenny
Page Number: 52-53
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. Yes, they’re about six hours behind us…I mean…behind the time here. The boys’ll be at the pool…now…swimming. Think of it. Morning over there. Sun. We’ll go anyway, mmnn? It’s so clean there.

RUTH. Clean.

TEDDY. Yes.

RUTH. Is it dirty here?

TEDDY. No, of course not. But it’s cleaner there.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy (speaker), Joey, Lenny
Page Number: 54-55
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY. You wouldn’t understand my works. You wouldn’t have the faintest idea of what they were about. You wouldn’t appreciate the points of reference. You’re way behind. All of you. There’s no point in sending you my works. You’d be lost. It’s nothing to do with the question of intelligence. It’s a way of being able to look at the world. It’s a question of how far you can operate on things and not in things. I mean it’s a question of your capacity to ally the two, to relate the two, to balance the two. To see, to be able to see! I’m the one who can see. That’s why I can write my critical works. Might do you good…have a look at them…see how certain people can view…things…how certain people can maintain…intellectual equilibrium. Intellectual equilibrium. You’re just objects. You just…move about. I can observe it. I can see what you do. It’s the same as I do. But you’re lost in it. You won’t get me being…I won’t be lost in it.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Joey, Lenny, Max, Ruth
Page Number: 61-62
Explanation and Analysis:

LENNY. You took my cheese-roll?

TEDDY. Yes.

LENNY. I made that roll myself. I cut it and put the butter on. I sliced the piece of cheese and put it in between. I put it on a plate and I put it in the sideboard. I did all that before I went out. Now I come back and you’ve eaten.

TEDDY. Well, what are you going to do about it?

LENNY. I’m waiting for you to apologize.

TEDDY. But I took it deliberately, Lenny.

LENNY. You mean you didn’t stumble on it by mistake?

TEDDY. No, I saw you put it there. I was hungry, so I ate it.

Pause.

LENNY. Barefaced audacity.

Pause.

What led you to be so…vindictive against your own brother? I’m bowled over.

Related Characters: Teddy (speaker), Lenny (speaker), Joey, Ruth
Page Number: 63-64
Explanation and Analysis:

RUTH. I’d need an awful lot. Otherwise I wouldn’t be content.

LENNY. You’d have everything.

RUTH. I would naturally want to draw up an inventory of everything I would need, which would require your signatures in the presence of witnesses.

LENNY. Naturally.

RUTH. All aspects of the agreement and conditions of employment would have to be clarified to our mutual satisfaction before we finalized the contract.

LENNY. Of course.

Pause.

RUTH. Well, it might prove a workable arrangement.

Lenny. I think so.

Related Characters: Lenny (speaker), Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 77-78
Explanation and Analysis:

TEDDY goes to the front door.

RUTH. Eddie.

Pause.

Don’t become a stranger.

TEDDY goes, shuts the front door.

Related Characters: Ruth (speaker), Teddy
Page Number: 80
Explanation and Analysis:

MAX. […] I don’t think she got it clear.

Pause. You understand what I mean? Listen, I’ve got a funny idea she’ll do the dirty on us, you want to bet? She’ll use us, she’ll make use of us, I can tell you! I can smell it! You want to bet?

Pause.

She won’t…be adaptable!

He falls to his knees, whimpers, begins to moan and sob. He stops sobbing, crawls past SAM’s body round her chair, to the other side of her.

I’m not an old man.

He looks up at her.

Do you hear me?

He raises his face to her.

Kiss me.

She continues to touch Joey’s head, lightly. LENNY stands, watching.

Related Characters: Max (speaker), Sam, Teddy, Joey, Lenny, Ruth
Related Symbols: Chair
Page Number: 81-82
Explanation and Analysis: