Alice inherited a beautiful blue butterfly necklace from her mother, Sarah, after she died during Alice’s freshman year of college. This butterfly necklace symbolizes the beauty of life—namely Alice’s life—and the importance of hanging on to those beautiful moments no matter how short or long they are. When Sarah was alive, she only wore the necklace during the most special occasions. After Alice’s diagnosis, however, Alice begins wearing her mother’s necklace all the time. Not only does it remind her of her mother, but it reminds her of something Sarah told her about butterflies: “just because their lives were short didn’t mean they were tragic.” This message becomes increasingly relevant in Alice’s own life as her Alzheimer’s gradually robs her of her memory, reasoning skills, and independence. At 50 years old, Alice is much younger than most Alzheimer’s patients, and she’s considering the end of her life far before her time. But, as she soon realizes, that doesn’t mean her life is tragic—she still has much more to celebrate than she does to mourn. Alice continues wearing the butterfly necklace all the time, and it reminds her of all the beautiful moments she can still enjoy even though she won’t have long to remember them, including the birth of her grandchildren, eating ice cream, and spending time getting closer to her daughter Lydia.
The Butterfly Necklace Quotes in Still Alice
She remembered being six or seven and crying over the fates of the butterflies in her yard after learning that they lived for only a few days. Her mother had comforted her and told her not to be sad for the butterflies, that just because their lives were short didn’t mean they were tragic. Watching them flying in the warm sun among the daisies in their garden, her mother had said to her, See, they have a beautiful life. Alice liked remembering that.
Moonlight reflected off her right wrist. SAFE RETURN was engraved on the front of the flat, two-inch, stainless steel bracelet. A one-eight-hundred number, her identification, and the words Memory Impaired were etched on the reverse side. Her thoughts then rode a series of waves, traveling from unwanted jewelry to her mother’s butterfly necklace, traversing from there to her plan for suicide, to the books she planned to read, and finally stranded themselves on the common fates of Virginia Woolf and Edna Pontellier. It would be so easy. She could swim straight out toward Nantucket until she was too tired to continue.