At several points in this chapter, the way Inman behaves around the old woman is compared to how Inman behaves with Ada. Around Ada (and in every other scene he’s been in) Inman has been terse and reserved, but now he finally feels comfortable (or just weary) enough to finally open up and express himself. As the old woman suggests, there’s a kind of “
Romeo and Juliet” irony about the romance in this book—Inman and Ada are basically two inexperienced young people experiencing a first crush, but because of external situations their “young love” becomes a matter of life and death.